Too many times we as people like to look at the negative in our lives and wish for our stories to be different and full of excitement. We complain about the bad things that may happen and look for everyone around us to feel sorry for us in hopes that that will make us feel better. The reality of all of this is the fact that focusing on the negatives only leaves us to misery and creates a state of constant fear. Fear that every turn will have an unhappy ending.
Truth be told, I believe that our lives are determined by our outlooks. I doubt there has ever been a successful person who looked for the down side of every idea or the sadness out of every event. Success comes from positivity and positivity comes from success. The law of attraction states that energy creates energy meaning positive thoughts and feelings bring positive results and vice verse. To me, this is how religion works. Hope and positive beliefs are created throughout a community and through this good things come to those who keep faith. You don't have to be religious however to bask in this effect. Looking for the good in every situation and every event can bring more success your way than just being good ever could.
One simple activity to help create this lifestyle and better your overall mood is to take a look around. Sit down and look around you and your life. Look at the people you have, the things you have succeeded at, the joys you have had. Look at the possibilities that surround you and the abilities you have. As I write this I am sitting alone in the middle of my gym. I look around at the chalk on the platform, the chains that hang from the rack, and the plates of all sizes. I see areas where people have lifted new personal records. I envision the fun that has been had within these walls. It reminds me of the success I have had to make it to this point. I think of all of the people who have been behind me to get to this point from my business partner to my closest friends to my clients. I think back to the time this was just a dream and now I realize that it was this positivity that had gotten me here. Embracing the good around me and ignoring the negative. I have failed and I have went through rough spots, but I was never able to stop seeing the good around me. I used that and I will continue to use that.
Don't get me wrong, I have my times of sulking, but when it comes down to it, I remind myself of the abilities I have, the people supporting me, and the opportunity in front of me and I suck it up and enjoy the ride, knowing I am on the path to great success.